As we usher in the new year, Sparkles! Early Learning Academy continues to be committed to the children’s academic development while addressing their social and emotional needs. And at the heart of it all is the teaching and practice of good manners. The need for a good foundation of manners at an early age has never been more imperative in our “instant” world. Manners offer children a foundation for building strong, healthy relationships with others and truly lay the groundwork for future success in both personal and professional lives.
Why Manners Matter
Studies have shown that young children taught manners will have better social skills, self-discipline, and emotional intelligence. According to a study published in the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology, children who engage in polite practices – for example, “please” and “thank you” – are viewed with more fondness and acceptability among peers and educators, further enhancing their confidence and acceptance.
Good manners are not just about politeness; they teach empathy, respect, and consideration for others. According to a Harvard Graduate School of Education report, these “soft skills” are critical predictors of long-term success, often overshadowing academic achievement.
How Sparkles! Reinforces Manners
We incorporate good manners in our daily routines and classrooms. Our teachers model and encourage children to share, say “excuse me,” and respect personal space. Role-playing, storytime, and interaction with peers teach the children to maneuver a social interaction positively and respectfully.
Our staff also weaves in discussions about empathy or trying to understand others’ feelings. During circle time, for instance, they may talk about how saying “thank you” can make someone feel appreciated or how an apology can heal a broken relationship.
Ways to Reiterate Manners at Home
It is important that parents get involved in teaching manners. Here are practical ways you can do just that at home:
- Model the Behavior You Want to See Children are natural imitators. Use polite language and show respect in your interactions. Simple phrases like “please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me” set a good example.
- Consistent Practice Role-play common social scenarios with your child, such as greeting a new friend or asking for something politely. This helps build their confidence and appropriate responses.
- Acknowledge Good Behavior Positive reinforcement works more effectively. Praise your child for using good manners, such as saying “thank you” without prompting or holding the door open for others.
- Read Stories About Manners Books like “Do Unto Otters” by Laurie Keller or “Manners Time” by Elizabeth Verdick make learning about good manners fun and understandable. Discuss the character’s behaviors and how they affect others.
- Encourage Gratitude Make gratitude a family affair. Encourage your child to say thanks at mealtimes, nighttime, or after a gift.
Teaching Manners is a Community Effort
Good manners don’t exist in a bubble. At Sparkles!, we work with our parents to provide a predictable and nurturing setting where our children can flourish and grow. Together, we can provide the building blocks to confidently sensitive well-mannered individuals who will surely leave their mark on the world.
As this new year unfolds, let us not forget to teach our kids manners. Its importance extends beyond the walls of childhood years, as it molds not only who your children are but who they will be.
